You're juggling bank accounts, court filings, family questions, and a stack of passwords you don't know—all while grieving.
Most executors try to manage this chaos with sticky notes, scattered emails, and memory. It doesn't work. Within weeks, things slip through cracks. Important documents get lost in email threads. Family members call asking questions you've already answered three times.
Here's the good news: you don't need to become a tech wizard to get organized. Four simple tools can eliminate most of the chaos—and one of them handles the majority of what you need.
This isn't a listicle of 20 apps to evaluate. It's a focused toolkit you can set up in an afternoon. Whether you're just starting as executor or already knee-deep in probate, these tools will help you work smarter, not harder.
Why Tools Matter (Even If You're Not "Techy")
Estate execution is project management. You're tracking deadlines, coordinating with multiple people, storing sensitive documents, and communicating status updates—for 12-24 months.
Without systems, you'll:
- Forget important deadlines
- Lose track of which family members know what
- Spend hours searching for documents you've already shared
- Burn out from repeating the same information to different people
The right tools prevent these problems before they start. And "right" doesn't mean complicated. It means simple, secure, and purpose-built for what you actually need to do.
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The All-in-One Solution: HeirPortal
If you only set up one tool, make it this one.
HeirPortal is designed specifically for estate executors. It handles the tasks that consume 80% of your time and energy—keeping family informed, organizing documents, and tracking progress.
What it replaces:
- Group emails and phone tag → Shared dashboard everyone can check
- "Can you resend that document?" → Central document storage with version history
- "What's happening with the estate?" calls → Visual milestone timeline
- Repeating yourself to each family member → Post once, everyone sees it
Key features that actually matter:
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Post updates once, all heirs see them. No more explaining the same timeline to your sister, then your brother, then your aunt. One update, everyone informed.
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Upload documents with version history. The will, the death certificate, the property appraisal—upload once, accessible to the right people forever.
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Visual milestone tracker. See exactly where you are in the probate process. Family members can check progress without calling you.
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Smart notifications. Family gets notified when something important happens. You stop fielding "any news?" texts.
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Role-based access. Your spouse sees financial details. Your cousin sees the general timeline. You control who sees what.
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Bank-level encryption. Estate information is sensitive. This isn't a shared Google Doc—it's built for security.
The real value: HeirPortal eliminates the communication burden that burns executors out. Instead of being a human answering machine, you post updates to a dashboard and get back to the actual work of settling the estate.
Start here. This single tool eliminates most of the chaos.
The Specialists: Three Tools for Specific Needs
For the handful of things HeirPortal doesn't cover, here are our picks (no affiliate links—just personal recommendations):
1. Password Manager: 1Password or LastPass
The problem: The deceased had 47 online accounts. You need access to banks, utilities, subscriptions, email, insurance portals. The passwords are... somewhere. Maybe a sticky note in a drawer. Maybe nowhere.
The solution: A password manager creates one secure vault for all login credentials. As you discover passwords (or reset them), add them to the vault. When you need to access the electric company account six months from now, you'll find it instantly.
Practical tip: Start by checking the deceased's browser for saved passwords. Chrome, Safari, and Firefox all store them. Export what you find into your password manager on day one.
Both 1Password and LastPass have free tiers. Pick whichever interface feels simpler to you.
2. E-Signatures: DocuSign
The problem: You need signatures from beneficiaries scattered across three states. Mailing documents, waiting for them to sign and return, tracking who's responded—it's a logistical nightmare.
The solution: DocuSign lets you send documents for electronic signature. Heirs sign on their phone in 30 seconds. You get notified instantly when they're done. No printing, no stamps, no tracking packages.
Practical tip: Create a template for common documents you'll send multiple times (like distribution acknowledgments). It takes five minutes upfront and saves hours later.
DocuSign's free tier handles most executor needs. Alternatives like HelloSign or Adobe's free e-sign tool work too.
3. Calendar: Google Calendar
The problem: Probate has deadlines—filing deadlines, tax deadlines, creditor claim periods. Miss one and you create real problems. But these deadlines are scattered across different documents, emails from your attorney, and court notices.
Practical tip: The day you learn about a deadline, add it to the calendar with a reminder one week before. Share read-only access with your attorney so everyone stays synced.
The solution: One shared calendar with every probate deadline. Set reminders. Share read-only access with your attorney or co-executor. No more "wait, when was that due?"
You probably already have Google Calendar on your phone. Use it.
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Putting It All Together
Here's the setup sequence I'd recommend:
Day 1: HeirPortal
- Create your estate
- Invite family members with appropriate access levels
- Post your first update: "I'm getting organized. I'll share updates here as things progress."
Day 1-3: Password Manager
- Export saved passwords from the deceased's browser
- Create your vault
- Add credentials as you discover them
Week 1: Google Calendar
- Add known deadlines (probate filing, tax dates)
- Set reminders for one week before each deadline
- Share with your attorney if applicable
As Needed: DocuSign
- Set up when you have your first document requiring signatures
- Create templates for documents you'll reuse
Total setup time: 2-3 hours spread across your first week. Time saved over the next 12-18 months: dozens of hours and immeasurable stress.
FAQ
Do I really need all four tools?
No. HeirPortal handles the heavy lifting—communication, documents, milestones. Add the others based on your specific needs. If you're the only one with account access, you might skip the password manager. If all beneficiaries are local, you might not need DocuSign. Start with HeirPortal and add tools as gaps emerge.
What if my family members aren't tech-savvy?
HeirPortal is designed for this. Family members don't need to learn anything—they just visit a webpage and see updates. No app to download, no account to create (unless they want notifications). If they can check email, they can check HeirPortal.
How do I find the deceased's passwords in the first place?
Start with their devices:
- Check browser saved passwords (Settings → Passwords in Chrome/Safari/Firefox)
- Look for a password notebook or document on their computer
- Check their email for password reset confirmations (search "password reset")
For accounts you can't access, contact institutions directly with the death certificate and Letters Testamentary. Most have a process for executor access.
Is it too late to set these up if I'm already months into probate?
Never too late. Even partial organization helps. If you're six months in and drowning, setting up HeirPortal today will still reduce your communication burden for the remaining 6-12 months. The best time to get organized was day one. The second best time is today.
Are there security concerns with storing estate information online?
Less than you'd think—and fewer than the alternatives. HeirPortal uses bank-level encryption. A password manager is far more secure than sticky notes or a spreadsheet. Email (which most executors rely on) is actually the least secure option.
The question isn't "is online storage safe?" It's "is it safer than my current system?" For most executors, the answer is yes.
What about other tools like Notion or Trello?
If you already use them, fine. But don't learn a new project management system while grieving and managing an estate. The tools in this article are simple enough to set up in minutes without a learning curve. Complexity is the enemy when you're already overwhelmed.
Probate is hard enough without fighting your own disorganization. Set up your tools early, keep your family informed, and free yourself to focus on what actually matters—honoring your loved one's wishes and taking care of yourself along the way.